Baseball

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Those of you who know me will have their eyebrows raised with that title.  Nick knows nothing about baseball… that was until last night.

A few years ago, friends of ours brought us to a Dodger game.  To show how clueless I am, I thought the Dodgers were a football team.  I mean seriously.  If you were raised in another country and someone tells you about a team called the Dodgers, you would surely think of football, rugby or something grubby.  So here I am cracking jokes about football all the way to the Dodger's game.  I even kid about big baseball lights at the parking lot of the Dodger stadium.  I thought they were odd for a football game.  And then it happens, inside the stadium I notice the field is particular.  It doesn't look like any normal football field I knew.  I thought football had changed until I saw the Dodgers come out and noticed my hour long gaffes.

Fear not, that won't happen again since last night we went to an Angels' game against The Twins, I believe from Minnesota.  It was interesting because I started to understand the game, or at least the many intricacies of the game.  I love Rugby because it moves quickly, requires a lot of strength and agility but also a lot of tactics and strategies that are constantly evolving.

Watching baseball, I started to understand a part of a childhood I never had before 11 and after 17.  I never knew baseball and learning more about it last night gave me a more in depth glimpse into our American culture.  It is a slow game, no doubt about it.  It is a frustrating one at that.  You move up, then get wiped out.  You place one person there, until the other team takes him out.  It's two steps forward, one step back and sometimes vice-versa.

Yes, I say our culture because I chose to live here.  There is something fascinating about watching a very slow moving game, filled with intricacies and sportsmen who get very little action and get paid handsomely.  And on that subject, judging by paying $81 for a few typical baseball beers and food is no wonder why these folks are millionaires and their owners billionaires.  Interesting, indeed.

The Big Shift

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Most definitely, things are changing everywhere.

I am amazed at how many people freely talk about spirituality, something that wasn't too common only ten years ago.

Big Mechanic Shops vs Small Ones

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Where do you go, a big shop because you’ve seen their signs all over town or you trust a smaller mom and pop shop?

It’s no secret I like smaller shops better. For one thing, they know you, not only by name but through the relationship you forged with them through the years.  When it came time to replace the suspensions and the shocks absorbers for my 1974 Alfa Romeo spider, the choice was clear, I went to Omega Motorsports, the place I have been going for over 5 years.  I know Uwe, the owner and trust him.   Since Uwe won’t do alignment, I go to International Motors  here in Long Beach, another small shop with dedicated mechanics lovers.

I could chose to go to a bigger, more well known shop but I have a hard time trusting them.  My last try at big shop resulted in buying disk breaks from the local Subaru shop that cost me $117 each.  I found the same items online for $64.  Lesson learned, there is more rapport and trust with the smaller shops that not only know you well, but also are passionate about the cars we drive.

Solstice Day!

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Go out and greet the day today.  It's solstice day!

This is the time when light and darkness are evenly matched.  Think about what this means.

Presenditial Cadidates Talks

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A few words on the presidential candidate speeches.

I watched Clinton and Obama talk on TV at the gym.  It was interesting to see the difference and the similarities between the two.  Something must have happened since last I watched them a month ago.  They are more civilized towards each other.  That is a good thing because the last thing we need to see are vicious and mud throwing president candidates in the current state of things.  We need maturity and for once, these two, and I think all three, have shown more than previous ones in the past.  I haven't seen McCain speak yet.

What it boils to however is that we love sports in this country.  We are raised to "pick a team" and cheer for it.  The problem is that we view politics in the same way.  Knowing the consequences, this is very dangerous.  It isn't about picking a team when it comes down to choosing our country leaders.  It is our  future and how we, as intelligent civilized people can put aside our silly selfish beliefs and work together to regain control of a situation out of order.

This is exactly what scares me about our candidates.  None of them have a team to present.  It is disturbing because we are not in high school voting for the Senior Queen and King anymore.  We are voting for a team of people who will lead our country.  We are surely mature and aware enough to understand that the world of politic is all about subtleties and strategic alliances.  No one does it alone.  The days of John Wayne are way long gone. 

So who is the team behind the candidates?  Who will be secretary of defense?  Vice-President?  Secretary of interior?  These are my fundemental questions that so far, no one has answered.  Yes, there are hints but I need more than hints before I make up my mind.  Until then, it is all talk.

It feels scary that people still vote according to what one person says when we know it takes a tight team to lead a country (or not).  It's sad to hear these candidates say all the things they know people will want to hear, general economy, healthcare and the war.  My real questions are what will you and your team do about it and how?  What can you show us now to convince us?  Who is in charge?  Certainly you don't think we are naive enough to think one person does it all? No, I'm sure you don't, right?

So instead of doing what every politician has done since the begnning of time, tell me who will be in charge of what and how will you all work together.  Before you cater to my dreams, let me know how you will work together to make it happen.  Give me the names of those you will pick to fill the important roles in your administration.  Like millions out there, I have seen through your speeches how words are cheap, actions are worth more.

In Awe Of Financially Sucessful People

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The other day at the gym…

I heard two ladies engrossed in a serious conversation.  I couldn't help but hear what they were talking about.  They were in awe of certain well-known figures such as Warren Buffet and Bill Gates.  Later I understood their awe was based on how much money they had made.  Since they made a lot of money, they were smart and good people.  Strange logic when you find out more about how people build these empires.  I even heard how great they both were for all the jobs they helped created.

I'm pretty vocal and obviously opinionated.  It was hard for me to resist the urge to ask them how many companies Microsoft had swallowed up and put people out of jobs.  Yet I resisted because I just saw them as people lusting over money and power.  That's all there were to these two ladies at that particular moment in time.

It made me think how our society has raised a generation of people who love successful people with money.  It seems that if you have money then you are smart, a good person and worthy of praise.  While it might be true of some people, many ultra-rich people didn't become that way by being angels.  In fact, if you care to find out enough about most of these people, you will hear horror stories masqueraded under a veil of capitalism.  Capitalism is a good thing, but when kept under control from greedy urges.  The capitalism we are seeing now is far remote from the one imagined by our fore-fathers, I feel.

It was interesting to see these two ladies get all excited about how good people Warren and Bill are.  I wanted to ask them how having money, power and success were values automatically granted to good people.  Money or money with ethics?  Yes, people define their own sense of integrity.  However, I feel what counts nowadays, especially in the current sad state of our society is to clear up the ever growing obvious mess we are leaving our children.  Making money is a good thing but amassing empires that give back very little to society is not a very worthy life in my values.  I value those who make a lot of money, have a fairly low profile and actually help around instead of stocking up.  You can be the judge of that.

“You’re The game”

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Man, you got game!

I heard that sentence the other day and it made me smile. I looked at that new generation, perfectly perched in my early 40s, one foot into yesterday, another looking into tomorrow. From this vintage point of view, I can still remember the exuberance of the 20′s and look forward to the ever growing wisdom of the Elders. It’s a great period in life.

There is a new generation more interested in looks and appearances that substance. At east, at first look. Is it normal to be like that at that age? Is it the age range or is it this particular generation? Funny, I remember wanting to look cool (at least within my criteria of what I thought was cool) but I always looked for substance. Above all, I always looked to express what I stood for. Most of my friends were like that also. I look at these 20+ people and see their struggle to look cool, different and socially accepted. There is also a funny paradox, they all want to be different. By trying to be different, it becomes hard to tell which ones are, and which ones are just following fashion. The problem is when everyone does their best to look different then you are not different anymore.

Tutoring and coaching younger folks makes me realize how much they need to have listening ears near by and people to help them navigate the murky waters of self-discovery. they need help to figure out where they stand on this big blue planet.

I get a lot of pleasure working with young people and teens. It’s fun seeing their trials and tribulations. It’s easy to forget how tough it was on us. It’s good to give them a pair of listening ears. After all, they are our tomorrows.

This New Wave Of People

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There is very definitely a new wave of people out there. There is a wave of people who are turning away from traditional jobs and looking to more fulfilling professions.

Maybe it’s the fact I am lucky to be a coach and attracting those who want to change. Maybe my enthusiasm brings it out but one thing is for sure, I meet more and more people who are turning away from making a living to making a difference.

How far we have come, from a society rebuilding itself at the aftermath of two world wars, to over-the-border consumerism to a growing current indigestion. There is a paradigm shift and I witness it every week. For all of you out there making a difference, kudos! For all of you thinking about making a difference, welcome! And for the rest, let’s talk more and communicate. I am happy to have witnessed that change. I am happy to live in these times.

In the meantime, I will leave you with Nelson Mandela’s inspired words:

“OUR DEEPEST FEAR IS NOT THAT WE ARE INADEQUATE. OUR DEEPEST FEAR IS THAT WE ARE POWERFUL BEYOND MEASURE. IT IS OUR LIGHT, NOT OUR DARKNESS, THAT MOST FRIGHTENS US. WE ASK OURSELVES, WHO AM I TO BE BRILLIANT, GORGEOUS, TALENTED AND FABULOUS? ACTUALLY, WHO ARE YOU NOT TO BE? YOU ARE A CHILD OF GOD. YOUR PLAYING SMALL DOESN’T SERVE THE WORLD THERE’S NOTHING ENLIGHTENED ABOUT SHRINKING SO THAT OTHER PEOPLE WON’T FEEL INSECURE AROUND YOU. WE WERE BORN TO MAKE MANIFEST THE GLORY OF GOD THAT IS WITHIN US. IT’S NOT JUST IN SOME OF US; IT’S IN EVERYONE. AND AS WE LET OUR OWN LIGHT SHINE, WE UNCONSCIOUSLY GIVE OTHER PEOPLE PERMISSION TO SO THE SAME. AS WE ARE LIBERATED FROM OUR OWN FEAR, OUR PRESENCE AUTOMATICALLY LIBERATES OTHERS.”

— 1994 INAUGURAL SPEECH

Nelson Mandela

The Virtue Of Silence

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Silence is a powerful ally and a great strength, so how come few of us know how to deal with it?

I remembered a while back I read a book about silence and it intrigued me. But silence is all so hard to achieve. We live cramped one on top of another, our neighbors directly looking in our rooms. We get out and are surrounded by people, cars honking angrily and people talking. Suburban California is not an easy place to find the sanctuary of silence. We fidget if we have nothing to do more than a few seconds. The TV needs to be on, music has to be playing, we have to do something for fear of finding ourselves alone with ourselves.

I was lucky last Christmas to get my Bose sound canceling headsets. It has made a world of difference. They don’t completely turn off all sounds, much to my sadness. I wish there was something out there that would let you chose from complete silence to drowning out white noise. I think Sony has something like that.

I wear the headsets pretty much all the time. I meditate with them, I read wearing them and even play Sudoku with the pleasure of no trucking loud sounds disturbing my peace. I found it makes me enjoy silence and even enjoy doing nothing. Just looking around our fantastic Casa Grande apartment in quiet silence is peaceful. It re-centers me. I don’t rush anymore. I feel I step outside of life’s infernal imposed pace and can tolerate doing nothing again, being by myself. And this is the point where you find yourself at ease with yourself again with nothing to do. Just be with yourself in quietness. And when the time is right again, you pick up a book.

Silence is so great I enjoy every drop of it until I have to go out again. And guess what? I actually enjoy jumping back into the infernal noise polluted society outside. Go figure!

Something Has To Give

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It’s interesting how many times this sentence shows up more and more in conversations: “Something has to give.”

It is usually on the tail end of how gasoline prices have gone too far up, or how much groceries are now. Some blame the ethanol craze and I suspect there is a lot of truth there despite GM’s claim otherwise. I guess decades of taking people for idiots is still ingrained in Detroit’s way of thinking. Taxes, gas, groceries and big V8s leaves little after having paid for it all.

Nonetheless, I hear more and more people feeling the squeeze and not just local shops. It’s sad to see America looking into ways of saving here and there in the minute details. It’s something I have never witnessed but looking back at lean times, it is something that has happened before. On the flip side, this will diminish the landscape of bloated SUV, pickup trucks and attitude drivers.

What’s important in the end is to talk and communicate. We realize we are not alone thinking and feeling this. It’s when we let the commotion take over and start feeling separated that we lose track of what is important. After all, we are all in it together. After, we are the ones who decide in the end. We just need to remember.

It’s interesting to see what society is going through as it mimics what the real estate market is doing, readjusting to a new way of living… maybe even a healthier one but in the meantime, something has to give.