So Long 2008

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Well, what a year it has been!

Where do you even start?  Ideally with the things I happy for. 

  1. Mostly, I am thankful for all of my clients for sharing your paths with me.  It has been an amazing ride. 
  2. Having 3 clients that have been onboard for over a year!  Just incredible.
  3. The testimonies and referrals from you all.  Thank you, thank you, thank you…
  4. Achieving my 2008 New Year's resolutions; getting seriously acquainted with silence, daily meditations, keeping a handle on the mental chit chat.
  5. All in all, the evolution.

And what an evolution it has been.  Whoever thinks life slows down after your 30s clearly is missing out on something.  If your 20s are fast and filled with adventures, your 30s are more about quality than quantity, but your 40s are about laying down the foundations and starting to reap the fruit of your labor.

Looking forward to 2009.  Happy New Year.

Guanajuato, Mexico, part 5

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It's interesting learning about people and seeing how some live with much less money than we do here in the US.  Some of them look happy and judging by the warmth and family feel the exude, they look very happy. 

They celebrate, they dance, they play music, they enjoy life, even if it is hard and they work hard, very hard.  We saw people hauling incredible weights on their backs up the steep hills of the city.  These folks still have what it takes.  They have the hunger. 

They also have an intrinsic feel for family, love children, unite, bond and are filled with an intelligent form of patriotism, that of being together, not necessarily the one representing the might of their nation.  They are humbled, we are not, or haven't been in a while… or yet.  To think we have everything, from big houses to big cars, super sweetened and enriched food, we try to look tough a la Hollywood images of sex and violence but we can't even drink our coffees without 5 sugars packs.  For all the material wealth we have, we should be happy, and some are.  If you are agile enough to not look at the doom and fear mongers in the news that can fill people with attitudes, you are doing well.   We have plenty of ideas on how the rest of the world should work.  These people in Guanajuato were true people, had real smiles, and though they had no way near the accumulated wasted wealth we have here, they know how to have fun.

It was an amazing experience and a real eye opener. I saw what I have gained from my travels and what I almost lost.  I am happy to be alive and aware.

Happy Holidays Everyone

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As I am writing this, I am wrapped up in my cozy place in Long Beach.  It's gray out here in California and the heater warms up the Spanish Revival that gets so cold when temperatures are low.  It feels warm and fine with my cup of decaf coffee, Virginia resting downstairs and the lights flickering.

I love this season. It's the perfect time to relax, to allow yourself to sit back and enjoy.  whether you have been good or bad, whatever your religion, it is a good time to step back and catch up with yourself.  I cherish this time for reflection and once again realize what is important to me, above all.

I am thankful for all of you who have worked with me.  Hearing your happiness is motivation for me.  Thank you for walking this path with me, and thank you for taking care of yourself.

Happy Holidays everyone,

Nick

Guanajuato, Mexico, Part 5

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What else can I say about beautiful Guanajuato?

The architecture is very pleasing in a European way.  It's a mixture of old European big homes and smaller ones dressed with remarkable colors.  Massive wooden doors ornate these sumptuous homes in the city, decorated with fresco balconies.  If it wasn't for the color scheme, I would feel as if I was in France somewhere. 

Sometimes I wonder what would it be coaching here in this environment.  I'm sure coaching could bring a lot to these people, especially the ones who are hard working and motivated.  I wonder what their challenges are, besides the obvious things.  What are their limitations?  As I see some of these people crossing themselves 4 times walking in front of churches, I can't help but think what catholic upbringing can do to people.  I was born and raised in a part of France that is very much old fashion catholic… or maybe was.  Even though I have no religion but clearly aim to get the the source of life in as a direct way as possible, I wonder if these people embrace their original religion and philosophy one day?  They can be proud of it and the world could only benefit from these ancient ways… especially in our troubled times.  Sometimes I see local natives, the ones with the dark skinned faces and their eyes speak volumes.  They look as if they have accepted this invading religious visitor but something in their eyes say that the tradition is still there… hidden, but there.  I want to know them better.  I want to learn from them what we have forgotten.  Surely the middle road is always best, embracing modern times while keeping ancient wisdom.  But I digress…

Robert Weil Associates, One Year After

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It's hard to imagine I was once working in real estate.  The thought alone is alien to who I am.  Having experienced this industry as I have, the thought of having worked in it seems odd.  But it dawned on me as to why.

The famed, Long Beach Robert Weil Associates team was unlike anything real estate has seen.  It was a team of people who weren't greedy, eager to close a sale and especially, did what they did because they loved it, not because they had to.  That is so crucial to being successful in anything you do.  Loving what you.  Hence the importance of having a good coach to get you there as quickly, and effortlessly as possible.

We met last night, the whole team a year after the door were closed on this institution in Long Beach.  Admired by many, often copied but never replicated.  That is because the team made the office, not the other way around.  The Christmas party was great.  It was fantastic seeing everyone again.  Yes, everyone showed up.  How many offices can say this?  And let alone, how many in the real estate industry can say they met a year later after closing the doors to their offices?

I feel sorry for those brokers who are fighting an upstream battle.  There isn't much you can do to create the perfect team, only the atmosphere.  Robert Weil Associates would only attract the best.  The rest would come in and left early.  They just wouldn't fit.

With the latest news of prices in southern California plummeting last month, I was shocked to read the latest "offering" of houses for sale on the local free paper.  It was as if many sellers still don't get it.  Loans are hard to find and homes are still priced high.  As long as that happens, nothing can move as fast as it should.  Lucky are the ones who pull the trigger on the dead beast.  At least, they don't make it drag.  Lucky are those who can hold on.  It will go up again one day, in many years.

Guanajuato, Mexico, Part 4

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American, German and Japanese cars, with some French ones. 
Most of the cars we saw were either Opel's Chevy versions, Nissan and an incredible amount of VW.  You will find a derelict Peugeot and Renault, and once in a while an older 70s car.  And the suspension systems!  Aye aye aye…  With roads mostly made of pavements, I think most taxis squeeze the useful life of suspensions well beyond safety.  In fact, our first drive into the city from the airport was in a bouncing taxi who would negotiate curves in a very hit or miss way. 

Ah, driving into Guanajuato is something that leaves an impression on you.  It would make the perfect movie.  Most of the traffic is underground due to an irrigation system put into place after a devastating 1905 inundation.  It was as if we were navigating an intricate labyrinth of catacombs at full speed on shot suspensions, dodging cars, sidewalk and other moving obstacle, such as humans.  Impressive! 

What was particularly disturbing was to see the huge amounts of GM cars here, when the same company begs for leniency at home.  GM has fuel efficient cars elsewhere.  How come they don't make small, affordable and fuel efficient home makes you wonder where their interest lies, or who is pushing them in that wrong direction.  One thing we are not told is that GM, Ford and Chrysler  abroad are doing very, very well with the introduction of a fuel cell car in China for GM, a hydrogen car, in other words despite the fact there are no infrastructure for dispensing hydrogen.  But guess who will be making hydrogen and by the same token a nice bundle?  Petroleum companies.  Clearly, these companies back home are despicable. 

What a city.

Guanajuato, Mexico, Part 3

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Fiesta, All Day And All Of The Night.
For everyone.  Fascinating how such hard working people can party and enjoy that togetherness feeling so much.  Mexicans party, dance, sing, play music and grab the moment to celebrate.  Celebrate what?  My romantic notion of their lives say probably a hard one with little money which translates into a lot of celebrating.  The Mariachos were everywhere.  Some good, some not so good but each touching in a kind, dear old man way.  And those sombrero mustaches!  We saw a few religious festivities that frankly felt more an excuse to drink and be merry than have deep spiritual revelations.  Then again, Tequila can work wonders on you.

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This picture was taken on a Thursday night.  No idea what celebration that was but it was fun.  :)

The only ones who do not party, or at least in front of us were poor people and dogs.  For as kind and warmhearted Mexicans can be with us, they show little to no compassion for the less fortunate.  Maybe a sign of, been there, don't want to be reminded?  However, I can help to shake off the sad feeling when they dismiss a poor person or a stray dog, especially coming from such a religion that preaches kindness and help of the less fortunate.  My heart was broken a few times seeing the disdain.  A poor dog, hungry, skinny, trying to survive would see legs kicking him.  Poor thing is just trying to survive… as we all are.  It was too much for me.  I took a big piece of bread and gave it to him.  He started to trust me, slowly.  He let me pet him.  Finally, he put his chin on my bent leg and just rest there as I caressed him with gentle words.  It was especially sad because he was looking for warmth and friendship.  Surely at one point, this dog had tasted the warmth of human companionship.  That was the very sad part of the trip.  What a softy, westerner I am…  Still I wish him well, good trip and to find a good home.  I actually, wish he starts to look up.  Look up at the light, whatever it might be and get out of this mess.  However, it might be.  As I'm writing this on the airplane, I can still feel the feel of this dog, looking for warmth in a safe of left over food and people kicking him.  Urgh, what's wrong with people who have hard lives and make less fortunate suffer even more?  I can't stand suffering.  It's too painful.

How True Friends Are

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Sometimes the friends we have aren't the way we feel friends should be.

I have been on an online forum for the last 7 years and have made some friends.  It has had its share of moments, but nothing prepared me for what has happened this last year.  It was hi-jacked by a few.  You know the drill, many times when nice people get together, you have a person who comes in and wants to take control.  You know who I am talking about?  Those people who need to control and take control of things.

This group talks about philosophy,. mostly around the Kybalion and other Hermetic disciplines.  As is, many of the members are well learned and have much to teach… however, they don't talk much.  Why should they.  But when they talk, it's like honey flowing from heaven.  It's stimulating, beautiful and simply hits home in its simplicity and accurateness.  Sadly, however, these groups attract power hungry folks, those who feel they need to teach others and fancy themselves learned masters.  Of course, ti makes you laugh at first, but what was more interesting were the multitude of feelings they arise in people.

The funny thing is the last wave of pseudo-masters has reminded me of what real friends are, gentle and accepting each other.   It reminded me that the friends I have made in that group are gentle folks that sometimes know, sometimes don't, but have two great qualities, humility and acceptance of others. 

Guanajuato, Mexico, Part 2

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A little more time has elapsed since we came back from Guanahuato and the city still leaves a deep impression on us.

Guanjuato gave us that feeling.  It's a unique city, and though we are no experts at Mexican cities, this is our our second taste of the country after the much touristy Puerto Vallarte.  It feels real, a bridge between traditional old Mexico and the modern one.  How long will Guanajuato remain this unique artisan town?  Hard to say, ten years?  Hopefully the UNESCO weight will keep the city humming.  The colorfully built next to each other mushroom homes are impressive.  Clinging to any patch of hill where a house can dig its foundation into the undulating slopes of the city, you will find pink, blue, yellow, ocre, purple, any shade of colors imaginable to the human eye covering these homes.

The people are simply wonderful, nice, smiling despite what we would call a hard life.  The city hasn't been over run by tourists yet, so maybe that explains their friendliness.  I am partial to dark skins and hair, and the younger people have such beautiful faces, despite wanting to look like the international beauty criteria, pale white skin models with impossible body curves.  And that brings the other subject of food.  I always crave Mexican food but after 4 days of beans, tortilla and cheese, I am ready for salads which we promptly found in the shape of a southern French restaurant.  Ha, healthy food again!  The bean and corn based food probably explains the Mexican body physique, which sort of loses its natural curving shapes after years of eating such a diet.  I see Mexicans chowing down all sort of pasty and beany things, all day long.  These people love life.  It is something we could learn from back here with our over abundance of material possessions.