Over the space of a year, I have had the privilege to continue working with businesses and people, and turning this passion of mine official into what I didn't know was called coaching. I have seen the benefits of growing a coaching relationship for the long term. It strikes me as one of life's greatest gifts.
I don't mean to toot my horn. For one thing a coach realizes is that the client does all the work. Sounds cliche but it's true. Those who have the best results have their clients do the work, otherwise, it's called consulting. You have to hand it to these people who, especially in this economy think outside the box and go the extra mile by investing in themselves with money, time and the courage to do something about it instead of just wishing. I am always humbled when I have those clients who understand the value of investing in themselves. They come out head and shoulder above the competition. Maybe, it's the fact they actually care enough about themselves and dreams to do something about. Maybe it's that drive that makes them successful. Maybe it's having to pay for it and kn owing you have to take advantage of it. Mostly, I feel it is all these things. I have had some amazing clients who, for over 6 months of coaching, one over a year now, come back, ready to tackle new things. It's something to look up to. It's something that humbles you. It's something that gives me courage and makes me realize, there are a lot of great people out there.
As most new coaches I was wondering about what happened when we had talked about everything, or when finally we got to "that" place. Turns out the view is so different once there that other things pop up. It was especially true when we realized my longest client was finally there. It felt good. Pat on the back sort of thing and I asked something like: "So now that you are here, what is in front of you?" Silence. And then the ah ha moment came for both of us. Once you are there, new horizons unfold.
It's something I understand having a coach myself and taking full advantage. Coaches need coaches to move on. It's a wonderful way to channel your energy into something purposeful and concrete. Mostly it says, you are different, you feel you are worthy and in this time of economic stress, it lays the foundation for tomorrow.
