Moving away from a state of blaming others and life, and moving into taking ownership of the things you do affect your life and yourself.  This is but one of the many things you can work with a coach.

Often times you get clients who are not happy with their lives and want more.  They might be at a stage of their lives where they are about to give up.  They can easily start to blame everything for their misery.  An important benefit from working with a coach is the realisation that everything you do and think effect who you are and your surroundings.

Once you are truly empowered with the realization of who you are and how strong your thoughts and actions are, you quickly grasp how fine tuning yourself shapes the way your life is.  Having a coach in this process helps this by speeding it up.  By having someone whom you can bounce off your experiences with, someone to get you to sort out your ideas and be in a neutral place can help you re-shift the way you look at things.  It is a very powerful ally to have in your life.  I should know, I am both being coached and a coach.