
Have you ever wondered who really has the problem when you react to a something?
If you dig down inside of yourself, you will find that you only react to things that ring a bell in you. That's why plenty of things leave you neutral. You either have worked through them or have not yet and are unaware of them. When you react to something it means that there is something in you that reacts to it. Whether its opposite or not, you react to it. So, who has the problem? It's really the one who reacts.
So next time you react to someone else's problem, ask yourself. Why am I reacting to this? Why am I losing control and reacting to something external? Then look at the person or situation, and see what you are feeling. Chances are you will trace them back to something inside of you that hasn't been resolved yet.
When people get mad in their cars because they get cut off by an inconsiderate driver, ask why you are so sensitive to this. Maybe are you are doing your best to be a courteous driver and the fact that someone doesn't put out the same amount of care as you do, make you mad. Then drill down further and try to get to the source of why you feel everyone else should be as respectful as you. Ask yourself if others don't also have the right to make mistakes, as you, surely have done. Can this not turn into a learning process?
At some point, you will feel better about yourself, knowing who you are and that you too, after all are like most others, doing the best you can to better yourself. I know I have. You might also come to exercise another great quality we humans have, forgiveness. Once you start to learn and forgive, you feel so much better about yourself and life becomes a smoother, fruitful ride. That's why I called my company Tap The Source. If you don't go to the source and tap it, you are battling a long uphill race.